Success in sports has always been based on who trains you. A good coach paves the way to your future career. The same principle applies to business coaching. But how do you spot the coach?
The business coaching industry is awash with two extremes. At one end are the “life coaches” who apply personal experience and insights, pop psychology and enthusiasm, to help clients move through a stuck area of their lives. At the other extreme are business coaches who work with standard packages and cannot understand or solve your problem outside their particular box. They either work for coaching organisations or assert their previous experience at Director level. Both types of coach claim they use “proven formulas that work”.
However, formulas that work for others may not work for you. Likewise, a coach that has no method or toolkit at all leaves you on a jolly but futile meandering in relation to your business. You should feel happy to outgrow or end your coaching, and move on to different coaches when the time is right. Good coaches are non-possessive and will help you to do that. They also customise and adapt their toolkit and methods specifically for you.
Here are some guidelines to identify the right fit of coach for you:
• Understands your specific business context and what YOU want to achieve.
• Sees your personal resistances and works on your inner mental game.
• Is compassionate and insightful with your limitations.
• Increases your control of business processes.
• Applies your learning and development to your closest business relationships.
• Helps you integrate your brand values [insert link to brand post above] with how you operate professionally.
• Has the technical competence to deliver results.
Here are some red flags for you to time your exit with your coach:
• They impose their own vision, aspirations, goals onto you.
• They force fixed formulas without objective evaluation, assessments or listening.
• They recycle personal beliefs with no application to the business context.
• They are inappropriately demanding, critical, dogmatic or inflexible.
• They make you feel a failure or a disappointment when you don’t please them.
• They are possessive and controlling, unable to end their work with you.
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